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Why Women Are Not Interested in Your Online Dating Profile

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By Nina Perlin 
Writing a dating profile can be just as obnoxious as not getting responses from women you contact. There are many reasons why a woman would be repelled by an online dating profile, avoid these mistakes so that you can increase your chances of getting more women interested in you.
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We all know a picture is worth a thousand words and photos hold even more value for an online dating profile. Time and again I have sat around disguising men's dating profiles with my girl friends and we all stand unanimous on the photo disasters we see. We find it an absolute turn off to see a photo of a man with another woman standing next to him. This includes your mother, sister, ex-girlfriend, best friend or the Anime costume characters at a convention. When women see a photo that has a woman in the picture our minds instantly jump to conclusions that you are a player, are still "really close" to your ex-girlfriend or that you are trying to show off an ex as to give potential women something they must measure up to; it is almost as though you are saying "this woman next to me is the type of woman I am looking for". Unless the woman looks 100 years old next to you, don't post a photo with another woman.
Another photo no-no is to post nothing but pictures of you wearing a baseball cap, sunglasses or a combination of both. Women instantly think that if you are wearing a cap or sunglasses then you have something to hide. That something to hide is usually a "Surprise, I'm bald!" Wearing sunglasses in every photo is just plain obnoxious. It makes you come off as if you are too cool for anyone. Then there is the photo of wee-man. Wee man photos are when you post photos of you that show you very far away and are too small to see any details of your looks. Think about it, you would also be annoyed if a woman you were interested in posted out of focus or very tiny photos that made it difficult to tell what she looked like.

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Besides photos, women can be turned off if a profile does not offer enough details about a person. If your profile is boring you will lose a woman's attention before she even makes it to your 2nd paragraph. You should keep things short enough to capture her attention but long enough to give her some pieces of information that would make her feel compelled to contact you or respond to your messages. Do not come off needy. It is best to avoid saying things like "I am looking for my soul mate" or "I am looking for my better half". Instead you can say something like "I am ready to find the right person to start a meaningful relationship with" or something like "I have realized how short life is and as I get older I have really come to appreciate what relationships offer and I would love to explore this idea with someone that feels the same".
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Another profile turn-off for many women is when men type in caps. Typing in caps comes off as yelling at someone online. It is unattractive and makes you look uneducated. Turn the caps key off now! Now, some women do judge a man by his grammar and spelling. It certainly does not hurt to run your profile through a spell check prior to publishing your profile for all to see. You should also avoid the use of chat shorthand such as "UR" or "U" instead of typing the full word of "you're" and "you" out. I hope that you find these profile tips helpful. Good luck and may you find what you are looking for online.

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Online Dating - What You Need to Know

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By Corbin J Reynolds

Online dating has been around since the birth of the Internet in the early 1990's. What once started as a small culture, internet dating has quickly become one of the most popular niches online. Millions of people around the world are using online services like eHarmoney, Matchmaker and Date.com just to name a few. Many of these services boast pairing thousands (some even millions) of successful couples that have turned into serious relationship and in many cases marriage.

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Matchmaker boasts matching 256 people every day that will eventually end up in marriage. That's quite a statistic which adds up to be close to 100,000 people every year, and that's just one of the thousands of dating services.
While online dating has been a blessing for millions of people worldwide, it's important to note the many dangers come with the territory.
Scams and personal danger have always been associated with dating, and the online scene is no different. Most would agree that dating online is even more dangerous than the traditional face-to-face dating culture.

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The main reason for this is you never know who might be sitting on the other end of that outstanding user profile.
There have been many instances of user fraud across online dating sites where users have provided false images and information about themselves while attempting to scam other users out of their money.
While there are many dangers associated with dating online, it's important to know that they can be prevented with the right knowledge and it can then truly become a blessing.

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Tips on How to Develop a Profile on Online Dating Sites


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By Peter Hogg

You are ready to go online and start dating someone of your choice. To achieve this goal you need to make sure that your profile on the dating site speaks about you and that other members understand you by reading your profile and contact you.


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There are many factors that you need to keep in mind while creating your profile so that it attracts maximum attention of any other member reading it and clearly explains what type of contact you yourself are interested in. Here we will look at those factors in detail.
  1. Your writing should be clear and in simple language. It should be as if you are talking with the person reading it. Such writing style attracts attention more than other forms of writing.
  2. Write honestly. Detail what type of person you are and the type of person you are interested in, so that right members contact you and you have to search less for the ideal match.
  3. Specify what you are looking for by joining the online dating website; a little bit of spice in life, friend or a soul mate? The clearer you make the better it would be.
  4. You are more likely to get responses if you include you photo in the profile. Most studies conclude that there are greater chances of getting a response if a profile includes person's photo.
  5. If you are required to write your profile in 250 words, then try to write about yourself in 150 words and spend the rest 100 words explaining the kind of person you are looking for.
  6. Give as many details as possible about your social as well as personal life so that other members get to know more about you just by reading your profile. Include details like things you like, what are the things that are important for you, what your goals are in life, etc.
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Follow the given tips on developing your profile and rest assured that the members contacting you will be as similar to you in nature as it can get.
 
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How to Meet Girls Online (And Be Successful at It)


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By Jake McMurphy
So where do you go to meet girls online? Are there any places that are better than others?
Without even stepping foot outside of your home you can meet women! How? Why, just fire up the old computer, log onto the information super-highway and meet girls online! It's that easy.
The hard part is being successful at it.
There are lots of sites where you can meet women. Facebook, Myspace, Omegle, etc. but they aren't the best because most women aren't there to meet men romantically. They just like to use their page to keep up to date with their friends and share photos and recent experiences.
They're not the best places to meet women looking for any type of relationship.
Where Do You Go To Meet Girls Online Who Are Looking For Romance?
There are about a gazillion dating sites online. Where better to find women looking for love than on sites designed to put people together.
So first things first, you want to find a good site and join it. There are lots of paid sites such as eHarmony, Match, and Chemistry.com but there are also some good free sites like PlentyOfFish.com, Okcupid.com, SixSingles.com, Jumpdates.com, and more.
Your best chance for success is to pick a very popular FREE site that gets lots of visitors. So find one you like, sign up (which takes less than fifteen minutes), verify your email and get started.


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Setting Up Your Profile
When you want to successfully meet girls online you want to make sure you create a FULLY complete profile including how you define yourself (who you are, what you like, etc.). Don't be shy. Be up front and honest. As they always say, honesty is the best policy.
Making Contact
Make good use of the chat and email functions on the dating site. Send a few messages to women you are interested in. Don't only focus on one person because you can't tell if she will respond so send out several emails (don't put all your eggs in one basket, so to speak). If you want to be really bold and really up your chances to meet girls online send out as MANY emails as you possibly can. The law of averages will be on your side then (the more you send out the better chance you will have of receiving a response).
Patience Is A Virtue
Some women may respond right away and others may not respond for a month. So don't get upset if you send out 100 emails and only get 2 responses the next day. You may get many more that trickle in over the next few weeks. So be patient. You could always GO CRAZY and sign up for several dating websites and send out 100 emails per site. That way you'll have hundreds if not thousands of emails out there (which would really increase your chances of success).
Play It Cool
One way to stand out above the crowd is to actually READ the girl's profile before you send her a message. Know her likes and dislikes and craft your email so that it addresses them. Make her know that you're interested in her as a a person and not just a picture you glanced at before you fired off an email. Make the email fit the "personality" of her profile. Get an idea for what she's looking for and try and make your email fit.
Don't LIE though. Don't be fake. Just tint the email language with a little bit of her own profile personality. This will make you stand out from all of the other guys who may have sent her a message.
Follow the above advice and most of all, have fun! When you're trying to meet girls online you need to go at it like an exciting game. If you're too serious women will sense it (women do NOT like desperation or someone who's overly serious about "meeting"). So keep it light and keep it fun and you'll meet a woman online before you know it!

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